4th Anniversary
gemstone: Blue Topaz.
Four years — blue topaz, the ordinary year made luminous
Quick answer
The 4th anniversary gemstone is Blue Topaz. The 4th anniversary gemstone is blue topaz, and year four is exactly the year for it: the jubilees are decades away, nothing round or famous happens — it is the ordinary year, the one marriages are actually made of. Blue topaz takes that year and turns it sky-colored. One honest fact worth knowing before you buy: nearly all blue topaz is colorless topaz given its blue by irradiation in a lab — a standard, stable, fully disclosed treatment the entire industry runs on, and the reason a large vivid blue gem can cost less than dinner.
4th anniversary gift ideas
- ✓A blue topaz pendant — maximum sky per dollar of any blue gem
- ✓Blue topaz drop earrings for the woman who wears cool colors
- ✓A topaz and silver ring, the Swiss-blue tone for daily wear
Blue Topaz for your 4th
The 4th anniversary is the blue topaz anniversary. Every piece below can be personalized with her own birthstone in a blue topaz setting — blue topaz for the milestone, her stone for her.

6-Stone necklace
Family Tree Birthstone Necklace
✦ Choose 2-6 birth months to represent your family

2-Stone ring
Birthstone Stack Ring Set (2 Rings)
✦ Choose 2 birth months for the two stones

S925 Sterling Silver
Birthstone Drop Necklace — All 12 Months
✦ Choose your birth month — 12 natural gemstones

18K Gold Vermeil
Birthstone Charm Hoops
✦ Choose birth month(s) — stack up to 4 charms per hoop
4th anniversary FAQ
What is the gemstone for the 4th anniversary?
The 4th anniversary gemstone is blue topaz. Fruit and flowers are the traditional fourth-year gifts; blue topaz is the assigned stone — the December-born blue that delivers the largest, most vivid carats per dollar of any mainstream gem.
Is treated blue topaz still a real gemstone?
Yes. The stone is genuine topaz; its blue comes from safe irradiation followed by heating, a permanent industry-standard treatment — natural blue topaz barely exists, which is exactly why untreated deep-blue stones command collector prices. What you should never accept is glass or coated simulant sold as topaz: buy from sellers who state the treatment plainly.